Dating: An APP that May Help You Fall in Love :: Check Out A Date

When I started my business Check Out A Date doing background checks almost five years ago I
would speak to groups of Singles about Dating issues. During the Q & A sections I would be asked
?what questions should I be asking??

?How do I ask??? ?How do I phrase questions about Intimate issues? Etc.? The questions ranged from: ?Is it important to share interests or values?,?religious differences?,? intimacy issues ? when is it right to sleep with someone? to ?how do you ask about safe sex practices?.

I started collecting questions, consulted with psychologists, relationship coaches, and counselors to find a broad range of questions; that go from Pre-date (online dating and 1st phone calls) to before intimacy questions. I found that many questions go unasked because Singles didn?t know when to ask or how to phrase them.

As a result I developed ?Conversation ? Cards? a set of 100+ cards. They worked well giving Singles a chance to look at what questions they should be asking themselves and their ?love interests? to create a loving relationship. They were packaged in a box like a deck of cards but were a bit bulky to carry around if you ran out of conversation topics.

Technology has created opportunities to making it easier to create APP?s (Applications) for Android phones/tablets and iPhones/IPads that make the questions more available and portable. I have had an APP developed called ?THE APP of QUESTIONS? currently over 325 questions divided into 6 Categories:
Who am I/ Who are You? You need to know yourself before you know what you need or want in a mate.
Getting Acquainted -starter questions, common interests, differences etc.
Relationships- Verbal foreplay ? relevant questions involving compatibility issues.
Red Flags /Safety ? Red Flags in a relationship and how to date safely.
Family History-questions that can be asked of family members or family events to learn about each other.

There is also a ? Relationship Readiness Quiz? provided by Marcy Rich, a relationship coach from ?Heightened Connections, LLC? to help you evaluate if you are ready for a relationship.

The Android APP is available through Google Play ? the Apple version will be available the end of March.

Could you be flirting with a felon? Having coffee with a con? Getting intimate with an imposter?
If after asking the questions during the dating process you become concerned about the answers from
your date you may want to do a background check on them, especially before you become intimate, definitely before you move in with them, let alone marry them. There are some basic things you can do to check on them (see previous Blogs) but you should do a complete background check (performed by a licensed private detective -like we do),be cautious when ordering background checks that are advertised on TV or from the internet as they may not have access to updated law enforcement records.

It is best to be sure that your soul mate hasn?t been someone?s cell mate! If you feel they are not being totally truthful or that something doesn?t seem right then contact www.CheckOutADate.com.
Our background checks will verify their identity and their integrity.

Source: http://www.checkoutadate.com/uncategorized/dating-an-app-that-may-help-you-fall-in-love/

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